Wednesday, December 1, 2010

A gentleman exists in Benson!

This gentleman named JT came in last week. It'd been months since he'd been in and he's a really nice,southern guy. He calls ladies "darling" and "sweetheart" even tips his hat to them. I and a coworker are pretty sure he's Texan. Anyway, he came in to get a to go order,asked how I was and asked if I was married yet. I told him no, there hasnt been anyone worth marriage-or at least anyone who thought I was worth marrying lol(current boyfriend is left out of this...we aren't at that stage yet lol). He told me "I am so shocked that a girl as sweet and beautiful as you isn't married yet. I think you are totally worth marrying. Any guy would be lucky to have you." :) :)
On his way out he said "well darlin' I have to go..You look good-no great you look great-as always.
I can't even begin to tell you all how that made me feel. My night was so much better! I'd been feeling pretty low and bummed out but that really helped. I honestly think God this man in to cheer me up. :)
He showed up on Thursday with his two friends and said they decided to eat at the restaurant "cause a cute waitress was working" lol..His friend being shy told him that what he liked about the waitress was that she didn't need make up to be beautiful..that without it I shone anyway,that I was naturally pretty." JT isn't shy...and told me this,insisting that he agreed and it was true...And embarrassed his friend :D. This guy is probably in his late 40's to early 50's. I doubt he has any interest in me. :)
Guys...always make sure to flatter your lady weather or not you want something/did something wrong/want to get laid. It makes us feel better,and that we're worth something other than sex,or favors. Only telling us nice compliments when horny or needing a favor makes us feel pretty used. You'd be surprised how happy a girl gets :) Somtimes we just have to be reminded of our worth. It's pretty easy to think we're worthless or just useful for bedroom fun and then are ignored for the rest of the time.